“I have to be realistic,” my champion wanna-be client confessed to me. She made this comment as we were winding down a coaching session in which I was helping to prepare her for an upcoming big golf championship.
She had just won her club championship by a milestone. Hitting the ball the best ever in a long time, her confidence was sky high. For the first time, she was learning to focus on the target and not her swing during competition. The result was a quieter mind and more focused concentration. Fitness-wise, she was very strong, having committed to a regular exercise routine. I could tell that she was now in a position to open up her mind to a whole new possibility—one of winning the national championship she was about to enter.
“But I have to be realistic,” she said again when I confronted her limiting belief. “Realistic?” I said. “Champions don’t focus on what is realistic, which is all about staying in the box of what already is. Champions focus on creating a new reality by breaking through the limits of possibility. That’s why they are called champions. They open their minds to new possibilities. They go to the edge of their capacities. They push through what is to create what can be. Do you want to be a champion?” “Yes.” “Then let’s spend some time writing down what is MOST TRUE for you and 25 reasons why you believe you now deserve to be in the winner’s circle. The idea is to expand what is possible for you based on what is most true right now.”
This one exercise of connecting the head and the heart fuses a person’s belief system and leverages her identity it to a whole new level. The focus is not on what is realistic, but on what is MOST TRUE. It took her some time to identify her most true reasons. When the list was completed, she was pleasantly shocked on what she read. A few of her “why I deserve to be in the winners’ circle” reasons are as follows:
- My limiting beliefs are dissolving.
- I am strong.
- I just slayed the field in my club championship.
- I’m learning how to successfully focus on target and not my swing while in competition.
- I’m opening up my life to the fullness of experience and enjoyment that is awaiting me.
- My confidence is sky high.
- I discovered an effective swing thought that is empowering my swing.
- The timing is perfect for a peak performance.
When we finished with all 25, I had her declare them out loud. The power that came out of her as she read them was remarkable. When done, all I could exclaim was “Praise the Lord!” She agreed, joining me with her own, “Praise the Lord!” We laughed. Now she was in her upcoming championship at the cellular level. All her energy—her mind, her body, her emotions and her spirit—were in “go’ mode. She is now “all in” her championship well before it happens. I further encouraged her to declare her reasons out loud several times a day to get them into her subconscious mind with even more certainty.
“You just upgraded your champion identity based on what is most true for you,” I summed up for her. “Now you will go play in that championship from the CENTER of who you are as a champion. This is your most powerful self—and when you play from this “inside-out” place—you have already won. Now go give it your all and let the chips fall where they may. You are now playing from victory. Regardless of the result, you have positioned yourself for a peak performance and it is going to happen.”
The coaching conversation itself was a peak performance experience. I, too, left feeling like I was doing what I was created to do—empowering people to tap into their championship mentality—to position themselves to perform from their highest self. I wish to reach more with this empowering training.
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